Best Medical Sexologist in Kota | Dr. Akash Parihar (MBBS, MD) — 100% Confidential
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Best Medical Sexologist in Kota
Trusted, Scientific, Non-judgmental

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Dr. Akash Parihar (MBBS, MD Psychiatry) — Kota's leading medical sexologist at Asha Wellness Sanctuary Hospital. Real medicine, real results — no quackery, no false promises.

🎓 MBBS, MD Psychiatry ⚕️ 7+ Years Experience 👥 5000+ Patients ⭐ 4.9 Google Rating 🏆 Top 3 Psychiatrist Kota
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Is This Happening to You?

You're Not Alone — And It's Treatable

Millions of men and women silently suffer from sexual health issues. The first step is recognizing the problem. Which of these resonates with you?

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Losing erection?
Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection during intimacy
→ Erectile Dysfunction
Finishing too early?
Ejaculation that happens sooner than desired, causing distress
→ Premature Ejaculation
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No desire at all?
Persistent loss of interest in intimacy affecting your relationship
→ Low Libido
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Porn affecting performance?
Real intimacy feels less stimulating than screens
→ Behavioral Concerns
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Relationship tension?
Sexual issues creating distance and conflict with your partner
→ Relationship & Intimacy
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Semen loss worry?
Anxiety about nightfall, Dhat — feeling physically weak
→ Dhat Syndrome
Condition Library

All Conditions We Treat — Scientifically

Browse by category. Each condition includes causes, treatment, and what to expect — not just a disease name.

⚡ Premature Ejaculation (PE)

PE is the most common male sexual dysfunction worldwide — affecting 1 in 3 men at some point. It is not a weakness, and it is highly treatable with the right combined approach.

Root Causes

😰Performance AnxietyWorrying about PE actually triggers the nervous system to speed it up — a self-fulfilling cycle.
🧬Serotonin ImbalanceLow serotonin levels in the brain are a primary biological driver of PE.
HypersensitivityIncreased nerve sensitivity in the penile region causing rapid response.
💔Relationship StressConflict and emotional disconnect with a partner contribute to performance pressure.

Treatment at Asha Wellness

1
Psychosexual CounselingBreaking the anxiety-PE loop. Reducing pressure through cognitive reframing and partner communication.
2
Behavioral TechniquesSqueeze technique, stop-start method — retraining the body's ejaculatory reflex.
3
Medical Management (if needed)FDA-approved SSRIs (e.g., Dapoxetine) that delay ejaculation. Safe topical desensitizers also available.

💔 Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

ED is not a life sentence — it is a treatable medical condition. Most cases have both psychological and physical components. Proper diagnosis before any prescription is essential.

Physical vs Psychological — Know the Difference

🩺Physical CausesDiabetes, hypertension, heart disease, low testosterone, smoking — all damage blood flow and nerve function.
🧠Psychological CausesPerformance anxiety, depression, stress. The brain is the most powerful sexual organ.
💊Medication-InducedSome antidepressants, BP drugs, or hormonal medications can impair erection quality.
🍷Lifestyle FactorsSmoking, alcohol, obesity, sleep deprivation significantly increase ED risk.

Treatment

1
Medical Evaluation FirstBlood tests for testosterone, HbA1c, BP, lipid profile before any prescription — no guesswork.
2
PDE5 Inhibitors (under supervision)Sildenafil / Tadalafil — safe and effective when prescribed correctly. Dangerous with heart medications — never self-medicate.
3
Psychosexual TherapyBreaking the anxiety spiral. One bad experience creates fear, which creates more failures — we interrupt this loop.
4
Lifestyle CorrectionQuitting smoking, weight loss, sleep optimization, testosterone-boosting exercise protocols.

🌿 Dhat Syndrome

Dhat Syndrome is a culture-bound anxiety disorder — the belief that semen loss causes physical weakness, fatigue, or illness. It is treated with respect, science, and patient-specific counseling. No judgment. Ever.

The Medical Reality

🧬Semen is RenewableYour testicles produce 1,500 sperm every second. Semen loss does not cause weakness.
📚Cultural ConditioningMyths rooted in Ayurvedic misconceptions and lack of sex education amplify anxiety.
🧠Anxiety is the Real IllnessThe fatigue and weakness you feel is caused by anxiety, not semen loss itself.
💤Nightfall is NormalNocturnal emissions are a healthy, involuntary physiological process. Not an illness.

Treatment

1
Sex Education & ReassuranceScientific anatomy education that replaces myth with fact — a relief for most patients within 2–3 sessions.
2
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Replacing "I am becoming weak" with evidence-based thought patterns.
3
Anxiety Management (if needed)Short-term medication to calm severe anxiety while therapy takes effect.
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Low Libido

Persistent lack of interest in intimacy (HSDD) — caused by low testosterone, depression, relationship disconnect, or medication side effects.

Treatable
→ Men's Health
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Nightfall

Nocturnal emissions causing guilt, shame, and fear. Completely normal physiologically — treated with education, CBT, and lifestyle modification.

Normal & Treatable
→ Men's Health

👩 Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD)

Women's sexual health has long been ignored in Indian medicine. At Asha Wellness, we treat female sexual dysfunction with the same scientific rigor and compassion as any other condition. Your sexual wellbeing matters.

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Low Libido (HSDD)

Persistent absence of sexual desire causing distress — triggered by hormonal shifts (postpartum, menopause), depression, or relationship disconnect.

Common & Treatable
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Vaginismus

Involuntary vaginal muscle tightening making penetration impossible or extremely painful. Rooted in fear or past trauma. Highly treatable with graduated therapy.

Highly Treatable

Dyspareunia

Painful intercourse. Sex should never hurt. Caused by infections, endometriosis, hormonal dryness, or psychological anxiety. Full assessment required.

Investigate First
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Anorgasmia

Inability to reach climax despite adequate stimulation — often psychological. Mind-body techniques combined with partner education produce strong results.

Psychological Focus
→ Women's Mental Health Services

📱 Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction

Pornography consumption rewires the brain's dopamine reward system over time, making real intimacy feel less stimulating. This is not a moral failing — it is a neurological adaptation. And it reverses with the right approach.

🧠Dopamine DesensitizationConstant novelty of online content floods dopamine receptors, raising the arousal threshold for real partners.
📉Delayed Ejaculation / EDReal intimacy triggers less response than screens — leading to performance failure and anxiety.
😰Performance AnxietyComparing real-life intimacy to unrealistic screen standards creates severe performance pressure.
🏢Kota Student PatternIsolation, hostel life, academic stress, and easy screen access make students particularly vulnerable.
1
PsychoeducationUnderstanding the neurological mechanism removes shame and creates a rational path to recovery.
2
Reboot ProtocolStructured abstinence and gradual real-intimacy re-engagement to restore natural arousal patterns.
3
CBT for Compulsive BehaviorIdentifying triggers, building healthier coping mechanisms, and reducing urge-driven behavior.
→ De-Addiction & Behavioral Programs

😰 Performance Anxiety

A single bad experience can trigger a cycle of anticipatory fear that causes the very failure you fear most. This cycle is extremely common — and extremely reversible.

1
Breaking the LoopIdentifying the triggering thought → anxiety → avoidance → more anxiety chain.
2
Sensate Focus ExercisesGraduated intimacy exercises that remove "performance" from the equation entirely.
3
Mindfulness TechniquesStaying present rather than "spectating" your own performance from outside your body.

💑 Relationship-Linked Sexual Issues

Sexual dysfunction rarely exists in isolation. Relationship factors — communication breakdown, unresolved conflict, emotional disconnection — are among the most common root causes.

📉Desire MismatchOne partner wants intimacy more than the other — a very common source of conflict and resentment.
💬Communication BreakdownUnable to discuss needs, fears, or disappointments — the silence makes everything worse.
💔Emotional DisconnectIntimacy feels mechanical when emotional connection has eroded over time.
🇮🇳Arranged Marriage PressureSuddenly sharing physical intimacy with a virtual stranger creates anxiety and dysfunction in both partners.
→ Marriage & Family Counseling

🏳️‍🌈 Gender Identity & Orientation Concerns

Questions about sexual orientation, gender identity, and related distress are addressed with complete confidentiality, scientific grounding, and zero judgment at Asha Wellness Sanctuary.

🧭Orientation DistressConfusion or distress about sexual attraction — addressed with affirming, evidence-based counseling.
🪞Identity QuestionsGender dysphoria or identity-related distress explored in a completely safe, non-judgmental space.
👨‍👩‍👧Family & Social PressureNavigating family expectations, social stigma, and cultural contexts in Rajasthan's conservative setting.
💙Relationship SupportBuilding healthy relationships and communication skills regardless of orientation or identity.
→ LGBTQ+ Mental Health Support
Clinical Authority

Root Cause Framework

Sexual dysfunction is never "just one thing." Dr. Akash evaluates all five dimensions before designing your treatment — this is what separates genuine psychiatric sexology from unregulated quackery.

🧠
Psychological
Anxiety, depression, trauma, OCD, stress — the most common overlooked root cause
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Biological
Hormones (testosterone, prolactin), diabetes, thyroid, cardiovascular health
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Behavioral
Porn conditioning, compulsive habits, lifestyle patterns, substance use
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Relational
Partner conflict, communication failures, emotional disconnect, desire mismatch
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Cultural
Guilt, shame, myths, arranged marriage pressure, "log kya kahenge" anxiety

Why this matters: Most quacks treat the symptom. Dr. Akash identifies which root cause dimension is driving your problem — so treatment is targeted, faster, and lasting. See also: Psychotherapy & Counseling · Anxiety Treatment · Depression Treatment

Patient Education

Understanding the Sexual Response Cycle

Your body follows a predictable sequence. Knowing where the breakdown occurs in your case guides treatment precisely.

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Desire
Low libido, HSDD
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Arousal
ED, poor lubrication
Plateau
Performance anxiety
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Performance
PE, control issues
Satisfaction
Anorgasmia, guilt

Clinical insight: ED is an arousal stage breakdown. PE is a performance stage control issue. Low libido starts at the desire stage. Understanding this helps you communicate your problem clearly — and helps Dr. Akash design a precise treatment plan.

Psychological Mechanisms

Why It Gets Worse Without Help

Understanding these psychological patterns explains why sexual dysfunction often spirals — and why early intervention is critical.

The Performance Anxiety Loop

One bad experience creates fear, which activates the nervous system, which causes the next failure, which deepens the fear.

Bad ExperienceFearAnxietyFailureMore Fear

Spectatoring

During intimacy, your mind "steps outside" your body to watch and judge your own performance — making arousal impossible.

Intimacy beginsMind detachesSelf-monitoringPerformance fails

Porn-Induced Desensitization

Repeated dopamine surges from pornography raise the arousal threshold, making real partners feel inadequate by comparison.

Porn useDopamine floodThreshold risesReal ED/PE

Guilt–Shame–Avoidance Cycle

Cultural guilt about masturbation, nightfall, or sexual desires creates shame, which creates avoidance, which creates dysfunction.

Cultural guiltShameAvoidanceDysfunctionMore shame
Indian & Rajasthan Context

Why India Needs Different Conversations

Sexual health issues in India — and especially Rajasthan — carry unique cultural layers that most generic treatments ignore entirely.

🇮🇳 "Log kya kahenge" AnxietyFear of family judgment, social stigma, and community gossip prevents men and women from seeking help. Private WhatsApp consultations available.
💒 Arranged Marriage PressureSudden physical intimacy with a virtual stranger creates significant performance anxiety for both partners. Post-marital sexual dysfunction is very common and very treatable.
🌿 Dhat Belief SystemAyurvedic mythology about semen as "vital essence" creates deeply entrenched beliefs about weakness from semen loss — requiring culturally sensitive education, not dismissal.
📚 Lack of Sex EducationRajasthan's school system provides minimal sex education, leaving adults with misconceptions that fuel anxiety. Dr. Akash provides evidence-based education in Hindi and English.
🎓 Kota Student Vulnerability (NEET/JEE)Hostel isolation, academic pressure, easy access to pornography, and lack of healthy relationships make Kota's coaching students particularly vulnerable to sexual health issues and performance anxiety.
Couple-Centered Care

When to Involve Your Partner

Sexual health is rarely a solo issue. Partner involvement in the right way — and at the right time — dramatically accelerates recovery.

When Partner Involvement Helps

  • Performance anxiety with a specific partner
  • Desire mismatch causing relationship strain
  • Vaginismus or painful intercourse
  • Post-arranged-marriage adjustment difficulty
  • Emotional disconnect affecting physical intimacy
  • Recovery from infidelity or trust breakdown

How Couples Therapy Works Here

  • Communication frameworks for discussing needs safely
  • Sensate focus exercises for gradual rebuilding
  • Reducing blame — shifting from "your problem" to "our challenge"
  • Psychoeducation for both partners simultaneously
  • Rebuilding emotional safety as the foundation of physical intimacy
Self-Check Tool

Which Category Fits You?

Answer 4 quick questions to find the most likely condition and get a suggested next step. 100% private — no data stored.

🔍 Sexual Health Self-Check

Private. Anonymous. Takes under 2 minutes.

1. What best describes your primary concern?
2. How long has this been affecting you?
3. Is this affecting your relationship or mental health?
4. Have you ever sought help before?
Clinical Evidence

What Research Tells Us

Dr. Akash's treatment approach is grounded in peer-reviewed evidence, not tradition or anecdote.

Anxiety → Erectile DysfunctionStudies show that 40–80% of ED cases in men under 40 have a primary psychological component. Treating the anxiety treats the ED — often without medication.
Pornography → Neurological DesensitizationRegular high-speed pornography consumption has been shown to reduce grey matter density in the brain's reward circuits, raising the arousal threshold for real partners (Kühn & Gallinat, 2014).
Depression → Libido SuppressionDepression is associated with a 40–50% reduction in sexual desire. Antidepressants themselves can further suppress libido — requiring careful medication selection (Dr. Akash uses libido-preserving alternatives where possible).
CBT Efficacy for PECombined psychosexual therapy + pharmacotherapy achieves significantly better long-term outcomes than medication alone — with lower relapse rates after treatment is complete.
→ Psychiatric Diagnostics & Lab Testing
Our Approach

How We Treat — The Full Spectrum

No single modality works for every patient. Dr. Akash combines five dimensions of treatment, personalized to your root cause profile.

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Psychoeducation
Replacing myths with medical facts. Often provides immediate relief from anxiety-driven conditions.
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Behavioral Techniques
Sensate focus, squeeze method, stop-start — retrain your body's physical responses.
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Medical Management
Evidence-based medications only when indicated, prescribed safely after full health screening.
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Lifestyle Correction
Sleep, exercise, diet, and substance use modifications that measurably improve sexual function.
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Couple Therapy
Partner-included sessions when relationship factors are part of the problem.
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CBT & Mindfulness
Cognitive restructuring and mindfulness to break anxiety loops and spectatoring patterns.
Recovery Journey

What Recovery Actually Looks Like

Not a generic timeline — a realistic phase-by-phase roadmap based on what patients actually experience.

1
Week 1–2
Understanding & Relief
First consultation establishes root cause. Psychoeducation begins immediately — most patients feel significant relief just from having their condition explained scientifically. "I'm not broken, I understand what's happening."
2
Week 3–6
Symptom Control
Behavioral techniques and/or medication begin showing results. Anxiety starts reducing. Performance improves with reduced pressure. Partner sessions initiated if appropriate. Sleep and confidence often improve first.
3
Month 2–3
Confidence Rebuilding
Positive experiences accumulate, breaking the fear loop. Medication tapered if used short-term. Mindfulness and cognitive tools become habitual. Relationship quality improves as sexual anxiety decreases.
4
Month 3–6
Long-Term Maintenance
Follow-up sessions ensure lasting results. Lifestyle habits are embedded. Coping tools for future stress are in place. Most patients are fully independent and prescription-free by this stage.
Myth Busting

Myths That Keep You From Getting Help

These dangerous misconceptions are the #1 reason patients suffer in silence. Let's end them with facts.

❌ Myth
✅ Medical Fact
"One drop of semen = 40 drops of blood. Semen loss makes you weak."
Semen is a bodily fluid like saliva. Testicles produce sperm 24/7. Semen loss does not cause weakness — anxiety about it does.
"Masturbation causes ED, blindness, and weakness."
Masturbation is a normal physiological behavior. Excessive frequency can desensitize arousal patterns, but occasional masturbation causes zero physical harm.
"Real men don't have sexual problems. This is a character failure."
ED affects 52% of men at some point in their lives. PE affects 30%. These are medical conditions — not character flaws — and they are treatable.
"Herbal medicines and hakeem treatments will fix this without anyone knowing."
Unregulated herbal treatments have no clinical evidence and often contain undisclosed pharmaceuticals. Safe, confidential medical treatment is available here.
"Women don't have sexual problems / women shouldn't talk about this."
Female sexual dysfunction is as prevalent as male — affecting 40–45% of women at some point. Sexual wellbeing is a fundamental health right for all genders.
"Nightfall means bad thoughts. It is sinful and will cause harm."
Nocturnal emissions are a normal, involuntary physiological process — a sign of a healthy reproductive system. They require no medical treatment.
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Your Privacy is Absolute

Sexual health consultations at Asha Wellness Sanctuary are completely confidential. Your information is never shared, records are secure, and our consultation rooms are private. Many patients consult via WhatsApp before their first in-person visit.

✓ No judgment ✓ Secure records ✓ Private consultation room ✓ WhatsApp consultations available ✓ Your information is never shared
Patient Stories

What Patients Are Saying

Anonymized reviews from verified patients. Real recoveries, real outcomes.

★★★★★

Sexual disorder ka allopathy treatment Kota mein yahan se liya. Privacy maintain karte hain. Results are positive. Very satisfied.

Verified Patient · Google ✓ Sexual Health
★★★★★

I was hesitant to seek help, but the environment was very comfortable and supportive. Minimal medicines and clear guidance made a big difference.

Verified Patient · Google ✓ ED Treatment
★★★★★

Doctor bahut experienced hain. Achhe se samjhate hain aur ilaj clearly explain karte hain. Results are positive and I'm doing well right now.

Verified Patient · Google ✓ Dhat Syndrome
★★★★★

Privacy is maintained. Felt safe discussing personal issues. Dr. Akash Parihar is the best sexologist in Kota — highly recommended.

Verified Patient · JustDial ✓ Privacy Assured
Clinical Signal

When to Seek Help — Don't Wait

Sexual dysfunction tends to worsen over time without treatment. These are the key clinical signals that professional help is needed now.

⏱️ Symptoms for 3+ months Issues persisting beyond 3 months have become established patterns that need structured treatment, not time alone.
💔 Relationship Distress Partner conflict, avoidance of intimacy, or emotional withdrawal related to sexual issues.
😰 Anticipatory Anxiety Dreading intimacy in advance — the performance anxiety loop has taken hold.
📉 Self-Esteem Collapse Sexual dysfunction affecting work, social life, and general confidence beyond the bedroom.
🚫 Complete Avoidance Completely stopping intimacy to "avoid failure" — this reinforces the dysfunction significantly.
💊 Self-Medicating Using alcohol, herbal remedies, or unprescribed medications to manage performance — a warning sign.
Frequently Asked Questions

Questions Patients Ask Before Their First Visit

Is my consultation truly private? Will anyone find out?+
Absolutely. All consultations — in person and via WhatsApp — are completely confidential. Your records are private. We have never and will never share patient information. Many patients prefer an initial WhatsApp message before visiting in person.
What is the difference between a medical sexologist and a "hakeem"?+
Dr. Akash Parihar holds an MBBS and MD in Psychiatry from a government medical college. A hakeem has no verified medical qualification. Medical sexology uses evidence-based pharmacotherapy and psychotherapy with safety screening. Herbal practitioners use unregulated, unproven remedies — often containing hidden pharmaceuticals.
Will I have to take medicines for life?+
Most patients do not require long-term medication. For purely psychological cases (anxiety-driven ED, PE), behavioral therapy alone achieves lasting results. For biological cases, treatment is targeted and duration-limited. Dr. Akash's approach is "minimum medication, maximum outcome."
Can I come alone, or do I need to bring my partner?+
Most patients begin alone, which is completely fine. Dr. Akash will suggest partner involvement only if it would benefit your treatment — and only with your full consent. Partner sessions are always optional.
What is the consultation fee?+
The initial consultation fee is ₹500. Follow-up consultations are priced separately. Dr. Akash prioritizes patient care over fees and will be transparent about treatment costs from the start.
I'm a student in Kota. Is this common?+
Very common. Hostel isolation, academic pressure, and pornography exposure create a perfect environment for sexual health issues in NEET/JEE students. You are absolutely not alone. Many students from Kota's coaching institutes consult Dr. Akash and recover fully. See also: Anxiety Treatment in Kota.
Is Dhat Syndrome a real condition?+
Yes — Dhat Syndrome is a recognized, classified condition in the DSM and ICD. It is a culture-bound anxiety disorder, not a physical disease caused by semen loss. The distress is real; the mechanism is psychological. It responds very well to psychoeducation and CBT.
What about female sexual problems? Is this clinic only for men?+
Absolutely not. Dr. Akash treats all female sexual dysfunctions — vaginismus, painful intercourse, low desire, anorgasmia — with the same expertise. A female counselor (Dr. Neha Mehra) is also available. See: Women's Mental Health.
Serving Rajasthan

Patients Come From Across the Region

Asha Wellness Sanctuary is Kota's most trusted sexual health clinic — patients travel from surrounding districts for Dr. Akash's expertise.

📍 Kota
Primary Location — MPA 4, Mahaveer Nagar II
📍 Bundi
~40 km — Regular patient base
📍 Baran
~80 km — Frequent visitors
📍 Jhalawar
~85 km — Patients regularly travelling
📍 Chittorgarh
~115 km — Specialist care
📍 Rajsamand
Rajasthan-wide reach
Address: MPA 4, Mahaveer Nagar II, Kota, Rajasthan — 324005  |  Hours: Mon–Sat 9AM–9PM · Sun 9AM–12PM  |  📞 +91-7300342858

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Dr. Akash Parihar · MBBS, MD (Psychiatry) · RMC Verified · IPSRAJ/LOM/A03/21
Asha Wellness Sanctuary Hospital · Kota, Rajasthan

Disclaimer: Individual experiences may vary. Content is for educational purposes only and does not replace a clinical consultation. Dr. Akash Parihar (MBBS, MD Psychiatry) — RMC Registered.