Child & Adolescent Psychiatry in Kota | ADHD, Autism, Teen Depression | Dr. Akash Parihar MD
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Growing Minds
Deserve
Expert Care. बचपन की मुस्कान और भविष्य की उड़ान को सुरक्षित करें।

✦ Science & Soul in the Service of Wellness ✦

Your child isn't "naughty," "lazy," or "dramatic." They may be struggling in ways they cannot yet put into words. Dr. Akash Parihar MD & Dr. Neha Mehra — Kota's most trusted child and adolescent mental health team.

Evidence-Based
100% Confidential
Parent & Teen Friendly
₹500 Consultation
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1 in 5
Children have a mental health condition
75%
Of conditions begin before age 24
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10 yrs
Average delay in diagnosis in India
Early
Intervention = best outcomes
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₹500
Initial Child Psychiatric Assessment · Kota
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2L+
Students in Kota coaching — many under extreme pressure
📍 The Kota Context

Surviving the "Kota Pressure Cooker"

The Weight of the Backpack

We understand the 14-hour study schedules. The mock test rankings plastered on institute walls. The hostels where children as young as 14 live without their parents, managing their first experience of failure entirely alone. The cycle of hope and devastation that repeats every 15 days when results come.

We have treated children who stopped eating because they felt they didn't deserve food after a bad test. Students who self-harmed because their rank dropped by 200. Children experiencing their first psychotic break from sleep deprivation and pressure, who were told by their coaching institute to "push through."

40%Students report significant mental health symptoms
14Average age students arrive in Kota
2018When mental health in coaching hubs became a national crisis

The "Aspirant Identity" Crisis

When a teenager studies 14 hours a day, their entire identity often collapses into a single mock test score. They stop being a child, a friend, a son or daughter — they become a rank. A bad score is not a setback; it is an existential failure.

This is one of the most dangerous psychological phenomena we see at Asha Wellness. The child has no "self" left outside the exam — so when the exam goes wrong, there is nothing to fall back on. No identity, no worth, no reason to continue.

Our work with Kota students is not just about symptom relief. It is about helping them rediscover who they are beyond their JEE rank — building psychological immunity to handle extreme pressure without breaking.

"Aap sirf ek student nahin hain. Aap ek insaan hain. Aur ek insaan ki value kisi rank se nahi naapte."

— Dr. Akash Parihar
Confidential Student Consultation →
🎭 बच्चों की भाषा में

बच्चों के दिमाग को कैसे समझें?

Complex clinical conditions — ek smartphone analogy se samjhiye. Parents aur children dono ke liye.

📱 🔋 100% — Healthy Brain
फोन एकदम smooth चल रहा है

Baccha khel raha hai, padh raha hai, dost bana raha hai, khush hai. Brain ke sare "apps" sahi kaam kar rahe hain. Sleep cycle theek hai, nutrition sahi hai, family connected hai.

⚠️ ⚡ Overloaded — Struggling Brain
50 भारी Apps एक साथ खुले हैं — फोन हैंग हो रहा है

Exam pressure + peer pressure + bullying + family conflict + comparison — yeh sab "heavy apps" hain. Brain hang hone lagta hai: irritability, tantrums, school refusal. Yeh badtameezi nahi — yeh "System Overload" hai!

🪫 🔴 1% Battery — Crisis Brain
बिना charger के phone start नहीं होगा

Depression, severe ADHD, clinical anxiety — battery 1% par hai. Aap chahe jitna dant lein, jitna push karein — bina charger (Therapy + Medication) ke phone start nahi hoga. Yeh laziness nahi — yeh medical emergency hai.

🗺️ Interactive Tool

The "What Are You Seeing?" Behavior Mapper

Don't worry about medical names. Just tell us what you're seeing in your living room, classroom, or school. Click what matches your child.

What is your child doing?
Click any behavior to understand what might be happening clinically — and what to do next.
👁️ Empathy Simulations

"Through Your Child's Eyes"

Inspired by Understood.org — experience what your child's brain actually feels like. These are not metaphors. They are as close to reality as text allows.

The ADHD Reading Experience

Watch this paragraph as you try to read it. This is what a physics textbook feels like for an unmedicated child with ADHD while a teacher talks, a classmate taps a pen, and the clock ticks.

When light passes through a prism, it refracts and separates into its component wavelengths. The angle of deviation depends on the refractive index.

They are not lazy. They are exhausted. Every sentence requires this level of cognitive effort. Imagine doing this for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week, while being told you're not trying hard enough.

🌿 With ADHD medication and behavioral therapy: The words stabilize. Concentration becomes possible. Not because the child changed — because the brain chemistry finally got the support it needed.
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The Anxiety "Background Noise"

During a classroom exam, here is the actual background noise inside the head of a teenager with clinical anxiety. Not occasionally — constantly.

💬 "What if I fail this completely?"
💬 "Everyone else is writing faster than me."
💬 "My heart is beating too fast — am I okay?"
💬 "If I fail, Mummy-Papa will be devastated."
💬 "I can't remember anything. My mind is blank."
💬 "Why can't I just be normal like everyone else?"

All of this is happening simultaneously — while the child is expected to recall Newton's Laws. This is not overthinking. This is a brain in clinical emergency mode.

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The OCD Brain — The "Sticky" Thought

When your child washes their hands for 45 minutes, here is what they are actually experiencing internally:

🧠 Intrusive thought: "Your hands are contaminated. Something terrible will happen to Mummy."
↓ Unbearable anxiety ↓
🙌 Compulsion: wash hands to neutralize the anxiety
↓ Brief relief → thought returns stronger ↓
🔄 Cycle repeats — escalating each time

The child cannot "just stop." The anxiety of not washing feels existentially dangerous. ERP therapy (Exposure and Response Prevention) breaks this cycle systematically and safely.

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The Anger Iceberg — Teen Depression

When parents see: "She is angry, disrespectful, and always in her room." What is actually happening:

😡 What you see: Anger, irritability, door-slamming, disrespect
🌑 Pervasive emptiness and numbness
💤 Extreme fatigue — even waking up feels impossible
🔇 Nothing brings any pleasure anymore
💭 "I am worthless. Nobody would miss me."
⏱ Time moves strangely — every hour feels like a week

Teen depression rarely looks like adult sadness. It presents as irritability, boredom, hostility, and social withdrawal — which is why it is so often dismissed as "attitude problems."

👁️ Lived Experience

What Your Child Sees vs. What They Feel

Bridging the gap between what parents observe and what children actually experience — the foundation of compassionate care.

👀 Parent Sees:
"Woh padhai mein dhyan nahi deta. Bahut chanchal hai. Seedha nahi baithta."
🧠 ADHD Child Feels:
"My brain is a TV with 100 channels changing every second, and I don't have the remote. I desperately want to focus — I just can't find the channel."
🌑 👀 Parent Sees:
"Woh bahut gussa rehti hai. Hamesha room mein band. Natak karti hai."
🧠 Depressed Teen Feels:
"Everything is incredibly heavy. Getting out of bed feels like climbing a mountain. I'm not dramatic — I am drowning and nobody can see the water."
🤕 👀 Parent Sees:
"School se pehle roz pet dard hota hai. Beemar rehta hai. Drama kar raha hai."
🧠 Anxious Child Feels:
"My body translates my terror into physical pain because I don't have words for 'impending doom.' The stomach ache is real — it's my brain's alarm system, not a lie."
🔄 👀 Parent Sees:
"Ghante bhar haath dhota hai. Baar baar light switch check karta hai. Pagal ho gaya hai kya?"
🧠 OCD Child Feels:
"If I don't do this exactly right, something terrible will happen to someone I love — and it will be my fault. The ritual is the only thing between me and catastrophe."
🌈 👀 Parent Sees:
"Dosto ke saath khelta nahi. Apni hi duniya mein rehta hai. Hamare baaton ka jawab nahi deta."
🧠 Autistic Child Feels:
"Sensory input is overwhelming — sounds are too loud, lights too bright, social rules too complicated and invisible. I'm not ignoring you. I am surviving the world."
🎭 👀 Parent Sees:
"Bahut shy hai. Social situations mein rone lagta hai. Kabhi bhi participate nahi karta."
🧠 Social Anxiety Child Feels:
"In every social situation, I am completely convinced everyone is watching me, judging me, and finding me inadequate. The fear is as real as if a lion were in the room."
🗂️ Conditions We Treat

Comprehensive ICD-11 Child & Adolescent Psychiatry

ADHD — Inattentive, Hyperactive, Combined

The most common neurodevelopmental condition. Affects focus, impulse control, and emotional regulation. Fully treatable with medication and behavioral therapy.

Very Treatable
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Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

A range of neurodevelopmental differences affecting social communication and behavior. Early assessment (ideally before age 3) dramatically improves outcomes.

Early Intervention Key
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Dyslexia & Learning Difficulties

Specific learning differences in reading (dyslexia), mathematics (dyscalculia), and writing (dysgraphia). Children are often mislabeled as "slow" or "lazy." UDID certification available.

Accommodation Support
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Speech & Language Delays

Not talking by 2 years, unclear speech at 3 years, or language regression — all warrant immediate assessment. May signal ASD, hearing impairment, or developmental delay.

Urgent Assessment
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Intellectual Developmental Disorder

Significant limitations in intellectual functioning and adaptive behavior. Assessment helps families understand the child's strengths and access appropriate educational support.

Comprehensive Assessment
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Tic Disorders & Tourette Syndrome

Involuntary movements or vocalizations that are often mistaken for "bad habits" or attention-seeking. Highly manageable with behavioral techniques and, where needed, medication.

Manageable
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Separation Anxiety Disorder

Excessive fear of separation from parents — beyond what is age-appropriate. The child who cannot go to school, or the teenager who cannot sleep without a parent present.

Highly Treatable
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Social Anxiety Disorder

Intense, debilitating fear of social situations — speaking in class, group activities, meeting new people. Goes far beyond normal shyness. Often misread as "introversion" for years.

CBT Responsive
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Childhood & Teen Depression

In children: irritability, crying, somatic complaints. In teens: withdrawal, boredom, anger, academic failure. Not "just a phase." A treatable medical condition that requires treatment.

Urgent Treatment

Panic Disorder in Adolescents

Sudden, intense physical terror — racing heart, choking feeling, terror of dying. Adolescents are especially ashamed and confused by panic attacks. Fully treatable.

Highly Treatable
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Eating Disorders (Anorexia, Bulimia, ARFID)

Life-threatening in severe cases. Often develop in Kota students under extreme body and performance pressure. Require urgent, specialized multidisciplinary treatment.

Medical Urgency
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Sleep Disorders in Children

Insomnia, night terrors, sleepwalking — often with a psychiatric basis in anxious or depressed children. Treating the sleep disorder improves all other symptoms significantly.

Treatable
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Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

Persistent pattern of angry/irritable mood, argumentative behavior, and defiance — beyond normal childhood pushback. Often co-occurs with ADHD. Parent Management Training is highly effective.

PMT Responsive
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Conduct Disorder

More severe: persistent violation of social norms, aggression, destruction of property, bullying. Early intervention is critical — without treatment, risks escalate significantly in adulthood.

Early Intervention Crucial
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Intermittent Explosive Disorder

Disproportionate, explosive anger episodes that are distressing even to the child afterward. Often misunderstood as "bad character." Has specific, effective pharmacological and behavioral treatments.

Treatable
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School Refusal

Not truancy — a clinical presentation driven by anxiety, bullying, learning difficulties, or social phobia. The child wants to attend but cannot. Requires multi-modal assessment.

Multi-Modal Approach
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Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)

New ICD-11 category — severe, recurrent temper outbursts, with persistent irritable or angry mood between episodes. Important to distinguish from Bipolar Disorder in children.

Specialized Assessment
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Reactive Attachment Disorder

Results from early emotional neglect — the child cannot form normal emotional attachments. Often seen in children from disrupted or institutional care backgrounds.

Trauma-Informed
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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Intrusive thoughts driving repetitive rituals. In children, commonly: contamination fears, checking, symmetry, and harm obsessions. ERP therapy is the gold standard — often life-changing.

ERP Highly Effective
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Trichotillomania (Hair Pulling)

Compulsive hair pulling — often dismissed as a "bad habit." A specific OCD-spectrum disorder causing real distress and embarrassment. Habit Reversal Training works well.

Behavioral Therapy
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Excoriation (Skin Picking)

Compulsive picking at skin until bleeding — anxiety-driven, often done without awareness. Causes significant shame. Highly treatable with the right therapeutic approach.

HRT Responsive
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Selective Mutism

Speaks normally at home but completely unable to speak in school or social situations. An anxiety disorder, not a developmental one. Often missed for years.

Treatable
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Gaming Disorder (ICD-11 Recognized)

WHO's ICD-11 now recognizes Gaming Disorder. Diagnostic criteria: impaired control over gaming, priority over other activities, continuation despite negative consequences. Structured digital detox protocol available.

Digital Detox Protocol
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Social Media & Smartphone Addiction

Beyond normal use — withdrawal symptoms (rage, despair) when phones are taken away. Dopamine dysregulation from infinite-scroll apps creates genuine behavioral addiction patterns in adolescent brains.

Structured Weaning
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Early Substance Experimentation

Cannabis and tobacco experimentation in Kota's hostel environment — particularly concerning for adolescent brain development. Early assessment and motivational counseling before dependence develops.

Early Prevention
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PTSD in Children & Adolescents

Trauma responses in children present differently from adults: regression (bedwetting, thumb-sucking in older children), nightmares, hypervigilance, avoidance. Trauma-informed play therapy and TF-CBT.

Trauma-Informed Care
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Childhood Adversity & Neglect

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) have lifelong neurobiological impacts on the brain. Assessment and early intervention can mitigate these effects significantly.

Long-Term Support
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Parental Conflict & Separation Trauma

Children exposed to severe parental conflict, domestic violence, or parental separation experience real traumatic stress. Not "resilient" just because they're young — they need specific support.

Family Systems Therapy
🏛️ Indian Classroom Myths

Myths of the Indian Classroom — Debunked

These are the cultural beliefs that cause the most harm to children's mental health in India. Said with love — they must be replaced with evidence.

🚫 Myth
"Danto, pitoge toh padhai karega"

"If you beat or scold them, they will study harder."

✅ Neuroscience Fact

Fear shuts down the prefrontal cortex — the brain's learning center — and activates the amygdala (survival mode). A terrified child literally cannot encode new memories or retrieve known facts. Punishment creates compliant, anxious children — not confident, curious learners. It can also cause lasting trauma responses.

🚫 Myth
"Dawaai se rank kharab ho jayega"

"Psychiatric medicine will make my child sleepy and ruin their JEE rank."

✅ Clinical Fact

Untreated ADHD ruins ranks — medication restores focus. Untreated anxiety ruins exam performance — SSRIs restore cognitive access. Modern, carefully titrated child psychiatric medications are optimized for cognitive preservation. Sedation is typically a sign of wrong medication or wrong dose, not inevitable.

🚫 Myth
"Woh bas chanchal hai — boys boys hote hain"

"He's just playful/hyper — that's normal for boys."

✅ Reality

There is normal childhood energy — and there is ADHD. The difference is severity, pervasiveness (home AND school), and functional impact. Boys with undiagnosed ADHD spend years being punished for a brain condition they cannot control. They develop shame, anxiety, and learned helplessness as secondary outcomes.

🚫 Myth
"Nazar lag gayi hai"

"It's the evil eye / supernatural — not a real medical issue."

✅ Compassionate Fact

Spiritual explanations for sudden behavioral or emotional changes can coexist with medical care — but must not replace it. Sudden withdrawal, personality change, or regression in a child has specific psychiatric and neurological causes that are identifiable and treatable. Trust your instinct and get assessed.

🚫 Myth
"Natak kar rahi hai"

"She's just doing drama / seeking attention."

✅ Critical Fact

Self-harm (scratching, cutting) in teenagers is almost never "drama." It is a dysregulated coping mechanism for unbearable emotional pain. The teenager who self-harms is communicating that their internal pain exceeds their capacity to cope. This always warrants immediate, compassionate psychiatric assessment.

🚫 Myth
"Psychiatrist ke paas jaana matlab pagal hona"

"Going to a psychiatrist means my child is crazy / it will ruin their future."

✅ Reality

Seeing a psychiatrist is exactly like seeing an eye doctor for vision problems. It treats a specific organ (the brain) that needs specialist support. Untreated childhood mental health conditions — not treatment — are what cause long-term academic, social, and occupational impairment.

🃏 Interactive

"Rebellion or Red Flag?" — Flip the Card

Hover (or tap) to find out: normal teenage behavior, or time to consult? The line matters.

👀 You See This

"My teen slams their bedroom door and says 'leave me alone.'"

🔍 What It Means

Usually Normal: Teenagers need increasing privacy and autonomy. Occasional door-slamming is developmentally appropriate. 🚩 Red Flag: Isolates for 3+ days, stops eating, doesn't respond even to gentle contact, or you hear crying/sounds of pain. → Time to consult.

👀 You See This

"My 8-year-old says 'I hate school' every Monday morning."

🔍 What It Means

Usually Normal: Most children prefer weekend to school. Brief protests before school are common. 🚩 Red Flag: Physical symptoms (vomiting, genuine fever, stomach pain), crying that continues after arrival, or repeated requests to speak to the nurse. → Assess for separation anxiety or bullying.

👀 You See This

"My teen spends 5 hours on their phone daily."

🔍 What It Means

Concerning but Common: High screen time is a modern norm worth addressing. 🚩 Red Flag: Violent rage, threats, or severe distress when phone is taken away; phone use continues past 2 AM regularly; complete neglect of meals and hygiene. → Gaming/Social Media Disorder assessment.

👀 You See This

"My child has one best friend and prefers to stay home."

🔍 What It Means

Usually Normal: Introversion is not a disorder. Quality over quantity of friendships is healthy. 🚩 Red Flag: Complete inability to speak in any social situation, physical symptoms during social events, or a sudden withdrawal from a previously sociable child. → Social Anxiety / Selective Mutism assessment.

👀 You See This

"My child washes hands several times before eating."

🔍 What It Means

Usually Normal: Good hygiene habits — especially post-COVID. 🚩 Red Flag: Washing for 20+ minutes until hands bleed, visible distress if prevented, specific rituals ("must wash exactly 7 times"), or ritualistic behavior extending to other areas. → OCD assessment immediately.

👀 You See This

"My teen's grades dropped suddenly this term."

🔍 What It Means

Needs Investigation: Single-term drops can be situational. 🚩 Red Flag: Accompanied by withdrawal, changed sleep, loss of appetite, or sadness — this is Depression masquerading as academic failure. Or accompanied by new inability to focus despite trying — this is ADHD. Both need assessment, not punishment.

👆 Click or tap each card to reveal the clinical picture

💊 Radical Transparency

What We Prescribe & Why — The Truth About Children's Medications

The biggest hurdle in child psychiatry is the fear of medication. We tackle this head-on with complete honesty. Information removes fear.

How they work: ADHD brains have lower dopamine and norepinephrine activity in the prefrontal cortex — the brain's "air traffic control" for attention and impulse management. Stimulants (methylphenidate / amphetamine salts) correct this deficiency, allowing the brain to filter, focus, and inhibit impulses appropriately. Like glasses correct blurry vision — they don't change the eye's nature, they give it what it needs to function.

Addressing the addiction myth: When used at therapeutic doses for ADHD, stimulants do not cause addiction. In fact, research consistently shows that treated ADHD reduces long-term substance use risk, because untreated ADHD is itself a major risk factor for addiction.

What we monitor: Appetite, sleep, growth parameters, heart rate, and mood — at every follow-up visit. If a child is sleeping poorly or not eating, we adjust immediately.
⚡ Dr. Parihar's approach: We start at the lowest effective dose. We build up slowly. We always use the minimum effective dose. And we plan regular "medication holidays" (weekends, school breaks) whenever clinically appropriate.
What they actually do: SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) do not create artificial happiness. They raise the brain's baseline serotonin availability, reducing the clinical intensity of anxiety and depression to a level where the child can actually engage in therapy. Think of it as lowering the volume on the alarm system enough that the child can hear their own thoughts again.

The therapy connection: SSRIs work best as a bridge to therapy — not a replacement. Once the biological intensity is reduced, CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) can actually take root. Our goal is always for the child to develop their own coping skills so that, when medically appropriate, medication can be safely tapered.

The de-prescribing promise: We never intend medication to be permanent. Our explicit goal with every child is to equip them with skills so that, when clinically possible, we can safely taper and eventually discontinue medication. Treatment is time-limited — skills are permanent.
OCD responds to a specific combination: SSRIs (typically at higher doses than used for depression/anxiety) plus ERP — Exposure and Response Prevention therapy. The medication reduces the intensity of the OCD "signal" enough for the child to engage in ERP, where they gradually face feared situations without performing the compulsion. SSRIs alone reduce OCD symptoms by ~40%. ERP alone: ~60%. Together: ~80%. This is why we never recommend medication without concurrent therapy for OCD — or therapy without considering medication.
There is no medication that "treats" autism — and autism does not need to be "treated" as a disorder to be eliminated. However, medications can significantly address specific co-occurring challenges: Stimulants for ADHD features common in ASD, SSRIs for anxiety and OCD features, Melatonin for sleep difficulties (extremely common in ASD), and Atypical antipsychotics (in very low doses) for severe irritability/agitation in non-verbal children. Medication decisions in ASD are always individualized and family-centered.
Melatonin is the most commonly used sleep medication in children — naturally occurring, safe at low doses (0.5–3 mg), and highly effective for sleep onset difficulties. It is not addictive and is appropriate for children from toddlers upward. We also address sleep through behavioral approaches (sleep hygiene, bedtime routines, screen curfews) as first-line before medication. Good sleep is fundamental to children's mental health — improving sleep alone can dramatically improve behavior, focus, and mood.
📋 Free Screening

Parent Self-Assessment — Is My Child Struggling Clinically?

10 questions for parents. Evidence-based. Takes 3 minutes. Not a diagnosis — a starting point.

Question 1 of 10
How long has the behavior or change you are concerned about been happening?

Your Assessment Result

⚠️ This is a screening tool, not a clinical diagnosis. A qualified child psychiatrist can only provide accurate assessment.

🌿 Book Assessment
📱 Interactive Tool

Screen Time Risk Calculator

Slide to your child's daily screen hours and see your child's risk profile — plus what to do about it.

Daily recreational screen time: 3 hours
0 hrsWHO guideline (2hr)12 hrs
Child's age: 10 years
3 yrs10 yrs18 yrs
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Moderate Concern
3 hours/day exceeds WHO's 2-hour guideline for this age group. Risk of sleep disruption, reduced physical activity, and attention difficulties. Start with a family screen time agreement and observe for behavioral changes.

Why Screen Time Matters for Growing Brains

🧠 Dopamine Dysregulation

Infinite-scroll apps are engineered to maximize dopamine release. Developing brains exposed for hours/day may recalibrate their dopamine baseline — making real-world activities feel boring and unrewarding.

😴 Sleep Architecture Damage

Blue light suppresses melatonin secretion. Late-night screen use delays sleep onset by 1–2 hours. Chronic sleep deprivation in children mimics ADHD and depression symptoms almost exactly.

✅ Our Digital Detox Protocol

Structured, medical withdrawal from excessive screen use — gradual reduction, substitute activities, family agreement, sleep hygiene, and where needed, pharmacological support for withdrawal symptoms.

🏥 Our Treatment Arsenal

Conventional & Unconventional — Everything We Use

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Safe Medical Management

Dr. Akash Parihar's Minimum Effective Dose Protocol — stabilizing the brain so therapy can actually work.

  • ADHD: Methylphenidate, Atomoxetine, Guanfacine
  • Anxiety/Depression: SSRIs (Fluoxetine, Sertraline)
  • OCD: Higher-dose SSRIs + ERP combination
  • Sleep: Melatonin, behavioral approaches first
  • ASD co-morbidities: Individualized approach
  • Growth & vitals monitored every visit
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Gold standard for childhood anxiety and depression. Adapted for age — younger children use games and stories; teens use structured thought records.

  • Thought challenging and cognitive restructuring
  • Behavioral activation for depressed teens
  • ERP for OCD (Exposure and Response Prevention)
  • Social skills training modules
  • Exam anxiety and performance anxiety protocols
  • Sleep CBT for insomnia (CBT-I adapted for teens)
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Parent Management Training (PMT)

Often the single most effective intervention for behavioral disorders — training parents in behavior management is more effective than treating the child alone.

  • Positive reinforcement systems tailored to the child
  • Natural consequences vs. punishments
  • Communication strategies for oppositional teens
  • Emotion coaching and co-regulation techniques
  • Managing meltdowns without escalating
  • Building connection alongside boundaries
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Play Therapy & Art Therapy

For younger children who cannot yet verbalize emotions — play is their language. Sand tray, art, and puppet play allow safe expression of the inexpressible.

  • Sand tray therapy for trauma processing
  • Expressive art for identity confusion in teens
  • Narrative play for processing family disruption
  • Puppetry for social skill building in ASD
  • Bibliotherapy — using books to name feelings
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Holistic & Neuro-Nutritional

The whole child — brain, body, gut. Evidence-based nutritional and lifestyle interventions that complement clinical treatment.

  • Omega-3 fatty acids for ADHD and mood
  • Iron and B12 screening (deficiency mimics depression)
  • Vitamin D optimization for mood regulation
  • Gut-brain axis: probiotic support where indicated
  • Structured physical activity prescription
  • Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR for teens)
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School Liaison & Advocacy

Children spend 6 hours a day at school — the school environment must be part of the treatment plan. We provide school support where possible.

  • Teacher psychoeducation letters (with consent)
  • Exam accommodation certificates for ADHD/Learning Disabilities
  • UDID (Disability Certificate) documentation for ASD
  • RKSK program information and referral
  • CBSE/ICSE/Board exam time extension documentation
  • Coaching institute communication (with consent)
⚖️ Parents' Corner

Critical Commentary for Indian Parents

Said with deep respect — because parents who understand these concepts become the most powerful part of their child's recovery.

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The Helicopter Parent Trap

Over-monitoring, constant rescue, and clearing every obstacle from your child's path doesn't make them safe — it robs them of resilience. Children who never experience manageable failure never develop the belief that they can handle difficulty. The result: crippling anxiety the moment real-world challenges appear. Our goal is not a protected child — it's an equipped one.

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The Snowplow Parent Trap

Snowplow parents remove all obstacles before their children reach them. The child who has never failed a test, resolved a conflict, or faced a consequence arrives at college — and collapses. Controlled exposure to manageable difficulty, alongside parental support, builds genuine psychological immunity. We help parents calibrate how much difficulty is growth-promoting.

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Validating vs. Fixing

When your child says "I'm terrible at math," the fixing response is "No, you're not — you just need to try harder." The validating response is "That sounds really frustrating. Tell me more." Research consistently shows that children who feel understood are more likely to try again than children who feel corrected. Validation is not agreement — it is acknowledgment.

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The Parent's Own Screen Time Problem

Children model behavior — not instructions. A parent who is on their phone during family time while telling their child to "stop using screens" creates cognitive dissonance. We work with parents on their own relationship with technology as part of the family system approach to digital wellness.

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Your Anxiety Becomes Their Anxiety

Parental anxiety is one of the strongest predictors of childhood anxiety. When parents catastrophize exam results, obsess over ranks, or treat every setback as a crisis — children absorb this as their own reality. Parent-focused therapy (working on your own anxiety) is sometimes the most effective intervention for the child. We offer this at Asha Wellness.

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Unconditional Love — In Practice

"I love you no matter what rank you get" must be believed — not just said. Children know when parental love is conditional on performance. Research shows that the single strongest predictor of psychological resilience is the child's belief that at least one adult is unconditionally in their corner. Be that adult — before the crisis, not just during it.

🌿 Mental Health Exercises for Families

Simple, evidence-backed activities to build emotional connection and resilience at home.

🌹 Rose, Bud, Thorn — Dinner Table Game

Each family member shares: One highlight (Rose), one thing they're looking forward to (Bud), and one difficulty (Thorn). Normalizes talking about the full range of emotions. Takes 5 minutes. Works from age 5 upward.

🫁 Co-Regulation Breathing

When your child is panicking: sit beside them (not in front), say "let's breathe together," and slowly breathe in for 4 counts, out for 6. Don't instruct — just model. Their nervous system will begin to mirror yours within 2–3 minutes. This is neuroscience, not magic.

📖 The Feelings Journal

A shared family journal — each member writes one feeling per day, with no judgment or discussion unless the child invites it. Creates a record of emotional life and normalizes emotional language across the family system. Especially helpful for children who can't yet speak their emotions.

🌙 The 3 Good Things Practice

Before sleep: each family member names 3 specific good things from the day. Research by Martin Seligman shows this simple practice — done consistently for 3 weeks — significantly reduces depression and anxiety and improves sleep quality in both children and adults.

🛡️ Crucial Safe Space

Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA) & Trauma — A Safe Space to Heal

CSA is tragically common in India — affecting children across all socioeconomic backgrounds. The abuser is most often someone known and trusted by the family: a relative, teacher, or family friend. Silence, shame, and the child's loyalty to the abuser keep it hidden for years. At Asha Wellness, we provide an intensely secure, trauma-informed, legally compliant space for survivors.

🚨 Behavioral Red Flags Parents May Miss

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Regression

Bedwetting, thumb-sucking, baby talk in older children — returning to earlier developmental stages is a common trauma response.

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Age-Inappropriate Sexual Behavior

Sexual language or play that is far beyond the child's age-appropriate understanding. This is a significant red flag requiring immediate assessment.

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Unexplained Fear

Extreme fear of specific people, places, or situations — especially new fear of someone previously trusted. Or extreme fear of removing clothing.

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Sudden Aggression or Withdrawal

An inexplicable behavioral change — becoming either very aggressive or very withdrawn — without any obvious environmental cause.

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Physical Symptoms

Unexplained pain or discomfort in genital areas, recurrent UTIs, or unusual physical injuries without adequate explanation.

🛡️ Good Touch, Bad Touch — Teaching Bodily Autonomy

Teaching children about bodily autonomy and appropriate touch is one of the most powerful CSA prevention tools. Key messages to teach:

🔒 "Your body belongs to you. Nobody has the right to touch your private parts — except a doctor with a parent present."
🗣️ "There are no secrets between adults and children — only surprises (like a birthday gift)."
🙋 "If a touch makes you feel scared or uncomfortable — even from someone you love — you must tell Mummy or Papa immediately."
❤️ "It is never your fault. You will never be in trouble for telling us the truth."
📋 POCSO Act 2012: India's Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act mandates that any person who receives information about CSA must report it. Doctors are mandated reporters. All information shared at Asha Wellness is handled in strict accordance with POCSO and legal requirements.

🌿 Our Commitment: Every child who comes to Asha Wellness Sanctuary following trauma is treated with absolute dignity, respect, and clinical excellence. Our trauma-informed approach — play therapy, TF-CBT (Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) where indicated — is designed to help children process what happened at their own pace, in a completely safe space. We walk beside survivors — never ahead, never pushing.

📊 Parent Resource

When to Seek Help — Developmental Milestone Guide

Every child develops differently. But some delays warrant professional assessment — the earlier, the better. Here are key red flags by age.

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12–18 Months

Language & Social Connection

Should: babble, point to objects, wave bye-bye, respond to name.

🚨 Seek Assessment: No babbling, no pointing, no response to name, or loss of previously acquired skills.
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2–3 Years

Words & Play

Should: 2-word phrases by 2 years, parallel play, follow simple instructions, understand "mine."

🚨 Seek Assessment: Fewer than 50 words at 2 years, no pretend play, doesn't follow 2-step instructions, or tantrums lasting 30+ minutes daily.
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4–6 Years

School Readiness

Should: tell stories, play with peers cooperatively, control emotions well enough for preschool, recognize letters.

🚨 Seek Assessment: Cannot separate from parent for school, constant physical aggression, extreme tantrums, no interest in other children.
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6–10 Years

Learning & Friendships

Should: read by grade 2, sustain attention for 20+ minutes on preferred activities, have at least one friend.

🚨 Seek Assessment: Cannot read by grade 3 (dyslexia), no friends despite desire, constant teacher complaints about behavior, school refusal.
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10–13 Years

Pre-Adolescent Transition

Should: develop peer identity, begin abstract thinking, show increasing independence, manage basic frustration.

🚨 Seek Assessment: Complete inability to tolerate failure (rage or collapse), social withdrawal, academic performance suddenly drops, unexplained somatic complaints daily.
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14–16 Years

Identity Formation

Should: develop personal values, manage peer pressure, show empathy, have some study organization.

🚨 Seek Assessment: Self-harm of any kind, persistent hopelessness lasting 2+ weeks, dangerous risk-taking, complete academic collapse, substance experimentation.
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17–19 Years

Adult Transition (Kota Aspirants)

Should: manage stress with some coping tools, tolerate failure without complete destabilization, have at least one supportive relationship.

🚨 Seek Assessment (Kota Context): Suicidal ideation after test failures, isolation from all peers, inability to study despite wanting to, panic attacks before every exam.
🌟 Stories of Hope

Real Families, Real Recovery

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Mera beta 9 saal ka tha jab teacher ne kaha ki woh "mentally slow" hai. Usay roz school mein shame kiya jaata tha. Dr. Parihar ne ek assessment mein bataya ki woh ADHD aur mild dyslexia hai — slow nahi, different hai. 8 mahine mein woh apni class mein star performer ban gaya. Agar aaj bhi woh purana label hota — woh toot jaata.
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Ramesh K. (Parent)
Son with ADHD + Dyslexia · Kota · Age 9
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My daughter came to Kota for NEET. Three months in, she stopped eating — she said she didn't deserve food because her rank had dropped. Dr. Neha recognized it immediately as early anorexia combined with severe performance anxiety. Eight months of therapy later, she appeared for NEET, scored in the top 15%, and — more importantly — is learning to be a person again, not just a rank.
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Priya M. (Mother)
Daughter with Anorexia + Performance Anxiety · Kota
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Hamara 6 saal ka beta 40 minute tak haath dhota tha. Woh baar baar poochta: "Mummy, kuch bura hoga kya?" Hamare ne socha yeh bimari hai. Dr. Parihar ne OCD diagnose kiya aur ERP therapy plus ek dum kam dose ki dawaai di. 5 mahine mein, woh seedha school se aata hai. Mujhe mere bachche mila wapis.
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Sunita T. (Mother)
Son with Childhood OCD · Kota · Age 6
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We thought our daughter was just "shy." By 11, she had zero friends and couldn't speak to any adult outside family. The principal called it "behavioral issues." Dr. Neha diagnosed Selective Mutism and Social Anxiety. With a combination of gradual exposure and school liaison work, she spoke her first words in class at 13. She is now 15 — class representative. We cry every time we remember.
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Vikram A. (Father)
Daughter with Selective Mutism · Kota
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As a parent, I came to Dr. Parihar about my son — but Dr. Neha helped me realize that MY anxiety was driving his. My constant worry about his JEE rank, my 10 PM calls asking about mock test scores — I was the anxious one. I did 3 months of therapy myself. My son's anxiety dropped 70% without any change in his own treatment. I am the most important intervention.
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Asha G. (Mother)
Parent who became the intervention · Kota
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Our 14-year-old started cutting her wrists. We thought it was attention. Dr. Parihar spent 2 hours with us explaining why self-harm happens — it's not drama, it's a pain regulation strategy when emotional pain exceeds coping capacity. He treated her with DBT-informed therapy. Six months later, she is clean, talking to us again, and actually laughing. That laugh — we hadn't heard it in 2 years.
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Neha K. (Parent)
Daughter with self-harm + teen depression · Kota
📜 Resources & Government Support

Research Evidence & Government Programs

🏛️ Government Support & Programs

🏫 RKSK — Rashtriya Kishor Swasthya Karyakram

Government of India's national adolescent health program — provides mental health, nutrition, and reproductive health services for ages 10–19. Ask us about RKSK referrals for eligible patients.

♿ UDID — Disability Certificate for Exam Accommodation

Children with ADHD, Autism, and Learning Disabilities may qualify for UDID certification — which provides exam accommodations (extra time, scribe, separate room) for board exams and competitive entrance exams including JEE/NEET. We provide the required psychiatric documentation.

🛡️ POCSO Act 2012

The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act. All medical professionals are mandated reporters. Asha Wellness operates in full compliance. We provide trauma-informed, legally appropriate support for CSA survivors and their families.

💡 CBSE & Board Exam Accommodations

Students with documented learning disabilities, ADHD, or mental health conditions may apply for exam accommodations through CBSE's special provisions. We provide the required psychiatric and psychological documentation.

🤝 Your Care Team

Meet the Specialists

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Dr. Akash Parihar
MD Psychiatry | Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Specialist
Mon–Sun: 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM (Sun till 12 PM)
"Every child I see has already been failed by someone or something — a system that labeled them rather than understood them, a classroom that punished rather than supported them, a culture that told them their worth was a rank on a piece of paper.

My work begins with undoing those labels. Before we talk about diagnosis, before we talk about medication, I ask the child: 'What do you love? What are you good at? What makes you laugh?' Because treatment that doesn't know the whole child doesn't know the child at all.

I bring modern neurodevelopmental science — from SN Medical College to Kota — and I translate it into something a 7-year-old and their parents can understand and use. That translation is the work I am most proud of."
🎓 MD Psychiatry | Neurodevelopmental Disorders | Published Research | Child Psychopharmacology
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Dr. Neha Mehra
Psychologist | Child Therapy & Family Systems Specialist
Mon–Sat: 3:00 PM – 8:00 PM | Sun: 9 AM – 12 PM
"Children don't come to therapy because they want to be fixed — they come because they are in pain and nobody has been able to hear them yet. My job is to be the person who finally hears them.

I believe therapy should feel like a place a child actually wants to come back to — not a clinical obligation. My therapy room has art materials, sand trays, puppets, and stories. For teenagers, it has a deeply non-judgmental space where nothing they say will surprise or shock me.

I also work extensively with parents — because children don't exist in isolation. The family system shapes the child, and healing the system heals the child. I love the moment when a parent says: 'I realized I needed help too.' That moment changes everything for the whole family."
🎓 Counselling Psychology | Play Therapy | Family Systems | PMT | Trauma-Informed CBT
Therapy Session
₹500
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❓ FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

Growth concern is taken seriously but frequently misunderstood. Some stimulants temporarily reduce appetite, which may mildly slow weight gain — not height. With proper monitoring, careful dosing, and planned medication breaks, growth is not significantly affected long-term. The "zombie" concern relates to over-medication — a sign of wrong dose, not inherent to the medication. Properly dosed, the child becomes more themselves: able to learn, connect, and express themselves. We monitor at every single visit.
This is extremely common — and forcing a teenager into therapy almost never works. Our solution: Come for a parent-only session first. Dr. Neha Mehra will coach you on how to approach your teen in a way that doesn't trigger defensiveness. We also offer the option of the teenager sending a WhatsApp message to us directly — to "test the waters" before committing to an in-person visit. When teenagers know they have control over the process, they are far more likely to engage.
Teenagers aged 16+ have a legal right to confidentiality in medical consultations. We do not share what a teenager discusses with us with parents without their explicit consent — except in specific safety situations (active suicidal plan, ongoing abuse, immediate danger to self or others). This confidentiality is precisely what makes teenagers willing to be honest in therapy. We explain this policy clearly to both the teenager and parents at the first visit — full transparency about what confidentiality means and when it ends.
ADHD: Reliably diagnosed from age 4–5 onwards, though school-age (6–7) assessments are usually more comprehensive as teacher input is available. Autism (ASD): Assessment can and should begin as early as 18 months if developmental concerns exist — early intervention before age 3 produces significantly better outcomes than later intervention. There is no age too young to raise concerns. If you are worried — come in. A conversation costs nothing and delay can cost years.
Learning disabilities (dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia) are differences in brain wiring, not diseases to be cured. With the right educational support — phonics-based reading instruction for dyslexia, concrete math approaches for dyscalculia — children learn to compensate and often excel. In India, children with documented learning disabilities can apply for: UDID disability certificate (exam accommodations for boards and competitive exams including JEE/NEET), CBSE special provisions (extra time, scribe), and modified assessment methods. We provide the required documentation.
The evidence is nuanced: it depends enormously on content, context, and duration. Moderate screen use (video calls with grandparents, educational content, limited gaming) is not harmful. The concern is: 6+ hours of dopamine-engineered infinite-scroll apps for developing brains, chronic late-night screen use disrupting melatonin and sleep, and social media's well-documented association with teen depression and anxiety (particularly in girls). WHO recommends maximum 1 hour/day for ages 3–4, 2 hours for ages 5–17. When families come to us with children whose screen removal triggers rage, violence, or collapse — that is clinical Gaming Disorder territory requiring medical assessment.
There is no safe way to make this distinction without professional assessment. Any statement involving suicide, self-harm, or wishing to be dead — regardless of context, tone, or relationship history — requires immediate clinical evaluation. The risk of treating a genuine suicidal ideation as "attention-seeking" is catastrophic and irreversible. The risk of treating "attention-seeking" behavior as a genuine crisis is a brief, contained intervention. Always err on the side of taking it seriously. Call us immediately: +91-7300342858.
✦ Science & Soul in the Service of Wellness ✦

Every Child Deserves to Be Understood.

Not labeled. Not punished. Not dismissed. Understood, assessed, and supported — with the best of modern child psychiatry and the warmth of genuine human care. Kota's most comprehensive child mental health team.

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Visit Asha Wellness Sanctuary, Kota

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Address

MPA-4, Mahaveer Nagar-II, Kota, Rajasthan — 324005

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Phone / WhatsApp

+91-7300342858
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Mon–Sun: 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM (Sun till 12 PM) · ₹500

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Dr. Neha Mehra (Therapy)

Mon–Sat: 3:00 PM – 8:00 PM | Sun: 9 AM – 12 PM · ₹500

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Medical Disclaimer: This page is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice or a clinical diagnosis. Interactive tools are screening aids — not clinical evaluations. Any concern about a child's mental health warrants professional assessment. In crisis, call 112 or iCall: 9152987821 immediately.